I received a very nice email from the male half of another couple trying to incorporate something "different" into their marriage. He is also blogging about it and offered up a link to his blog. Here's part of his email to me:
I also wanted to say that both my wife and I have some understanding of the dilemma you have found yourself in, as we are now going through similar experiences with regards to how my crossdressing has progressed from wearing - to dreaming - to become a male-lesbian during intimacy. Though our situation is a bit different from yours as far as my dressing goes, it is this last aspect of my transvestism, something that even I do not understand completely, that we are now trying to deal with. In attempting to articulate and understand the many questions my behaviour poses to both me and my wife, I too have begun to write a blog of my own http://www.imitationsofreality.com which I hope will shed some light and be of some help to others who find themselves in a similar situation.
I will read with interest - the other perspective is so very helpful to me in my own journey...
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I just read through it and it's great - Thanks for the link.
ReplyDeleteHi Susanne... Thank you so much for the comments regarding my blog. You have helped us tremendously by being here in cyber-space and hope we can do the same for others. Beginning some time in the next week or so, I will begin publishing letters – part of the ongoing dialogue that my wife and I have been exchanging, which may be of assistance as well. Letter writing has been a wonderful tool in expressing our emotions on this whole matter and hopefully will help us both become more comfortable with the issues involved.
ReplyDeleteThanks again and God bless
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Hello Susanne,
ReplyDeleteI just wanted to let you know that there is an imposter at work on your site. There is someone commenting on your blog using my name (ilas). My name is a registered Google account and can be clicked on to see my profile.
The name of this imposter does not do this.
So please do not think it is me.
Thank you.
With kind regards,
ilas